Sunday, August 4, 2013
What I have learned this week
It has been a tough week. Ziggy, my 3 year old Cavalier King Charles Spaniel mix had an accident. It was my fault.
Ziggy is an energetic personality. He loves to be outside or go for car rides. He is happy, protective of his family, and adventurous.
We were at a friend's house. She has a lot of property so I thought it would be safe to let the dogs off leash. Ollie stayed near me and Ziggy kept venturing a little further every moment. I had to stop to pick up Ollie's poop and Ziggy got too far away. I called but something was more interesting to him and he kept going. Before I knew it he was under the fence of the corral. I didn't even think that the horse would be out. Ziggy saw this big animal and started running. The horse started running, Ziggy got under his feet and before I could get there he screamed.
The gate was locked so I climbed the fence and picked up my baby to check for broken bones. All seemed fine until I saw his right eye.
It just started to swell and I knew it was filling with blood. Ziggy would whimper if anything got near it. We headed straight to the vet. She was in surgery but the tech took Ziggy in and they sent us right to the ophthalmologist. After a look over we knew he would lose his eye. It has been a week and he is recovering nicely.
What is most amazing is that Ziggy is still Ziggy. He leads us down the sidewalk as fast as he can. He hops up onto the back of the couch so he can see everything that is going on, and he is first into the kitchen for a treat.
It makes me think about the students in my class. We put them into this situation called school where they are expected to conform to the rules of education. They are expected to all be on the same page at the same time. They are expected to all know the same things. How crazy is this?
Personality does not change it adapts. We need to allow for this in schools. Children will learn the things they need to live a successful life. This is inside the child from birth. Ziggy is still Ziggy and has adapted to his new field of vision.
No matter what, your children will be fine. They will adapt to the expectations of others. But think of the possibilities for your child in a school where they can construct their own learning, where they can fulfill their own potential and not be judged in relation to others. Where they are accepted for who they are.
I know you would all accept Ziggy without his eye, so why not accept children with differences and adjust to meet their needs rather than forcing them to fulfill someone else's expectations.